Prayer for a Wonderful New Year (01 Jan 2013)

Dear Lord,
Thank you for giving me a wonderful and a blessing new year.
the memories you'd given me today will forever remain in my heart.
and
Dear Lord, please help me to be patient.

In the name of Almighty Jesus I prayed, Amen!

What are my most grateful for year 2012 (27 Dec 2012)

날씨가 너무 좋네요 ~ 잘지내고 있는겨?.. 보고 싶었어요.. 
 

How has my year of 2012 been?

Working life (all about $$)

Less Entertainment – Less Outing– Less Drinking – No boyfriend - More Exercise - Healthy Lifestyle

This year mentally grew up compare to few years back. From a very needy, weak and dependent person have become a tougher person now. Although I still depend on my parents at times, but I choose not to and as time goes by I came to realized how fragile is a human being and they won't forever be around to pamper me like a princess I used to be. The only person that will always be with me is God and I. That’s the reason why I need to continue to depend on HIM for the support.

Practice a lot in being silence, read a book that taught me do not reveal all my thoughts to people because one day, nobody would ever listen to whatever I said and trust me. I came to realized that whatever I said now has to back up with my own action. I don’t like giving false hope or revealing much about my future because I'd not achieved anything now and I don't want to give any disappointment to the listener. 

*God is good and God is Great*
He opened my eyes made me realized who am I. Being a responsible person as growing up I started to have visual to understand and differentiate what’s right and wrong and what’s important to me in my life.  That’s you, my family and God.
And also come to understand that maturity is not about AGE, it is what you do and what you say, it is thinking of others first before thinking of one’s self or being selfish and forcing people to understand your own point of view because nobody could understand you or your life, don't expect them to understand you in and out because they are not walking on the same path as you.

Learning how to stop judging people, I'll first look into the mirror before I go judge anybody. I'm not perfect and there're tons of drawbacks in myself.  I don’t feel that I’m so matured now but I’m practicing and will always stick to my own principles.

What are 12 things I love about this year.

1)      Love my family more and more – work work work - sacrifice time to spend with them; what I can do is buy them good food every time home visits. This is my favourite. 

2)      I have financially independent now compares to the old times, everything relying on grandparents. 

3)      I leave home worked in Singapore for a year, became more independent in taking care of myself.

4)      God presence  – he will always find a way for me to stepped out when I’m in the darkness

5)      Good friends and Bad friends – no clarification for this. You have to experience yourself. 

6)      More exercise – not to be slim but to be healthy

7)      Less alcohol – it’s tempting but determinations need to improve.

8)      Eat vegetables and fruits now 

9)      Good working environment – Blessing from God and this is so well prepared by him

10)   Good colleagues – treating people the same way how you would like to be treated. 

11)   Good Boss and Manager – treated me so well especially once I saw the yearly bonus.. I laughed so hard and I wet myself (on my face)

12)   Lastly, Christmas time was one of my favourite days of the year, I spent time with family the day before Christmas Eve, and we’d party at home. So warm and delighted.

Goodbye 2012 and Welcome 2013

Red ink stains one red, black ink stains one black

I read this book recently and found a few proverbs that I personally love and there is one a very good chinese proverbs that I would love to share it here so that I can remind myself all the time.

近朱者赤，近墨者黑 (jìn zhū zhě chì，jìn mò zhě hēi)

A Chinese proverb similar to the English saying "Bad company corrupts good character", and extremely similar to the Greek proverb "A man is known by the company he keeps".

The origin of this saying lies in the way the Chinese used to prepare ink for writing and painting. There were two basic colours available in the ancient days: red (赤; chì) and black (黑; hēi). Red ink was known in Chinese as 朱砂墨 (zhū shā mò), while black ink was simply called 墨 (mò). To prepare the ink, one had to grind an ink-stick in an ink container (about as big as an ash tray), taking care that one's long sleeves stayed out of the way. Grinding the ink-stick often meant that the ink would stain your fingers (or sleeves, if you were careless or inept). Therefore, another person could always tell which ink you were using by the colours on your hands.
This principle was applied in predicting the way a person's character would turn out by the kind of company he was keeping; or vice versa to tell a person's friends by his personality.

Imagine, feel and touch~ (29 Nov 2012)

Feeling is the greatest power to conquer every good things in life. 

• Feel God to everything
• Feel Happy to everything
• Feel Good to everything
• Feel Great to everything
• Feel BLESSED to everything
• Feel Beautiful to everything
• Feel Satisfied to everything
• Feel Fun to everything
• Feel Determine to everything
• Feel Lucky to everything
• Feel Contented to everything
• Feel Glad to everything
• Feel Love to everything
• Feel Positive to everything
• Feel Fabulous to everything
• Feel Gratitude to everything
• Feel Passion to everything
• Feel excitement to everything
• Feel Hope to everything
• Feel Enthusiasm to everything
• Feel Believe to everything
• Feel Hope to everything
• Feel Faith to everything 
• Feel POWER to everything

  

Yes, this is tough, but knowing that I'd feel great after so much feelings. 

I will start to feel~

The sleigh bell is ringing..!! (28 Nov 2012)

 Christmas is coming

Christmas is one of my favorite days of the year,
 if you have read my previous blog about "My Dream Holiday" you would probably know it.

I love Christmas is not because of having a holiday on that day,
but because it's time to Christmas music *ding dong bell*

and what most important is spending this precious time singing Christmas songs with my family..

*wink wink*

Another reason is because the wave of Christmas sales is everywhere..!!!
It's time for a shopping spree. I can't resist going on
Shopping shopping and shopping...!!!
*$$$ fly *
and also,
it is a special time for you to buy gifts and cards for 
your lovely family or friends or special ones.. !!

Christmas tree

brings back sweet memories when I was 16 years old, 

I can say that was a really really sweet one... 

 There was a time in my life when I was young and naive. 

  I remember I’d bought a Christmas tree slightly smaller for my little bf. 

And what crazy was, 

the route I brought the back, was tougher than you can't imagine!

And I spent too much on the tree and decoration fillings.

This memory will be captured in my heart forever.

 *Once upon a time the Craziieeee and Naive me* 

Wanted to give him as a little surprise and decorated it in his room before he came back from school.

** 3 hours passed*

waiting, waiting and waiting 

I finally fell asleep..!

I wasn't expecting much...

Hohoho… the end!

~Well, he is married now~